I want to be fair and friendly, but I have annoyed a new member who joined yesterday. 1st game I developed a strong position and offered a double, expecting her to resign, but she accepted and lost. 2nd game her position was strong so she wanted to double; as I was likely to lose I resigned. She says I am an unfair player. Am I unfair? I want to win fairly without upsetting people, especially new ones. Advice requested!