Hi Ralph Remington
i cannot see that sign by your name. Please clear your browsers cache. 
FlyOrDie are currently carrying out urgent maintenance/repair work, which occasionally causes problems.
They are working on it right now.  Thanks for your patience and
best regards,
John

Ralph, I had the same sign, as have many others, and the only way to get rid of it as of now is to unclick visible to others beside where you choose male or female. It will no longer show male or female but the sign will be gone.