Homeboy,
I don't lose connection every other game, so it might be something up with your computer or connection.
Have you tried the FAQs at 

http://www.flyordie.com/games/help/support/contents.html

and in particular 

http://www.flyordie.com/games/help/support/dc.html

 ?
It is unlikely the Moderators will be able to provide any help that isn't already there. 

Thanks Eve I still lose connection a lot on here...ive tried everything

How do you manage to win tournaments if you get disconnected every other game?
You must be some curler!